The following are “Real Life” assorted marriage issues testimonies to encourage those who are dealing with these particular issues. We believe you will find help and hope through reading what they have lived through and learned through.
It’s not just what you live through that’s important but also what you learn through. And then it’s important to pass that information along to others who could benefit from what you have learned, as well.
Please prayerfully read the following and see how God speaks to you on your particular issue. We will be adding more testimonies as God provides.
May God minister to your marriage as you apply what He teaches you to do!
ASSORTED MARRIAGE ISSUES TESTIMONIES:
• ON THE ROAD AGAIN: HUSBAND TRAVELING
• MAYBE I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO MY HUSBAND
(& Other Doubts I Have About Marriage)
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(USA) After marriage my wife suddenly remembered that she had a large Government Student Loan, which she had made a long time before we had even met, to keep her out of trouble. Several years later because of the drop in Dollar value I asked her to help in paying for her Student Loan. She said I am not going to go to work.
(USA) My wife and I both have been working since day one of our marriage. We both played an active role in making sure our only daughter got the proper care and spent family time together. Our marriage has been a labor of love and we have enjoyed every moment of it. Even through times of disappointment in each other, we learned to disagree. We learn to get angry with each but, not let the sun go down on the that moment. I always recall my first love and what He did for me and my second love, my wife, become more easier to love. I am reminded that it is the man who has the ultimate responsibility in securing my marriage. I must love my wife as Christ loves the church and gave His life for it.
When my wife recipicates in kind, we can get through all of the other things that come up. As husband and wife, we are one and we can not allow anyone one, children, mother, father, siblings, friend or foe to come between us. Open communication should be the norm in any relationship but, especially in marriage.
The biggest problem that I see with modern day marriage is that, we have forgotten or never heard what the word of God has to say about marriage. There is a big difference between a wedding and a marriage. The marriage begins when the wedding ends. We spend more time on planning our wedding than planning our marriage. Most folks in today’s society get married on a trial basis, with the idea that if, it doesn’t work I can always get out of it. Ii is just like saying vows are only made to be broken. It is only the human species that will not mate for life. Marriage is not just a sexual pleasure zone. It is coupled with many things that can bring great joy but, only when it is bonded in the love of God.
Husband and wife are to be help mates to each other, even in the financial restoration of the relationship. The word of God says that, if one is not willing to work, they ought not to eat. Financial instability can be one of most problem causing elements in a marriage. Coupled with withholding financial secrets and not keeping with the family budget, financial woes can cause trouble for already fragile relationships. My wife loves her job and finds great satifaction in helping others and provides a valuable service to our community. She also likes the idea of having more money to spend on things she enjoys doing. It is a win/win for our family.