What you say and what your wife hears can be two entirely different things (which you have probably already figured out by now). And what she says and what she means can be two different things also (which you’ve probably figured out also or you wouldn’t be reading this article). It can be truly puzzling and perplexing!
It’s almost as if you’re operating in a different language system from each other. And essentially you are! It’s possible that:
“Your wife has been telling you dozens of things, and most of them have little to do with the words she has been speaking. Since you aren’t a mind reader, you probably feel baffled by the whole thing. But there are secrets to this business of loving and understanding your wife.”
Do you want to know what those “secrets” are?
That’s what writer Kyle Minor would like to help you with, as he aims to clue you in on “14 ways to sharpen your language skills” with your wife so you better understand each other.
The article he writes appeared on the web site for New Man Magazine. To help you in your understanding and to learn some important keys to improve your communication with your wife, click onto the link below:
Dr David Stoop wrote a helpful article that husbands and wives should take to heart on this issue of talking to and hearing each other:
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Paul Byerly, from The-generous-husband.com web site, explains some additional things you may benefit from considering, as far as what you say to your wife. Please read the following article so that what your wife hears you say will not slam her ears shut:
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