Perspectives in Marriage Conflict

They say there are two perspectives to every situation that happens. But we believe there’s actually three perspectives, as it pertains to marriage conflict. There’s the husband’s, wife’s, and God’s perspective —in other words, what REALLY happened. Ultimately, it takes a willingness on both the husband and wife’s part, to Read More…

Resurrected Marriages

As we focus on the resurrection of Jesus Christ, may we continually remember who He is to the world, and to us as individuals. He is God incarnate. He is the Way, the Truth and the Life. As we are told, “No man comes to the Father, but through Him.” He Read More…

Is It Ever Too Late to Reconcile?

Is it ever too late to reconcile? That question is often linked to statements like, “Things Will Never Change!” or “My Spouse Will Never Change!” or “My Feelings Will Never Change!” Cindy and I learned a long time ago that when our thoughts go in these directions nothing good ever Read More…

Are You Enabling Your Spouse?

I had every intention of never speaking to him again. After discovering my husband, Tim, had been going to prostitutes for over a year without me realizing it, I filed for divorce. Unbeknownst to me, God had a much different plan in store. Reconciliation During a six month separation, God held Read More…

Reconciling with a Wife Who Has Hardened Her Heart

“I’m trying everything I can, but my wife just won’t consider reconciling our marriage.” “I’m doing all I know how to do, but my wife still wants a divorce.” “My family is split apart, but my wife says ‘no’ to working on reconciling.” Those are just three of many statements Read More…

TO SEPARATE OR NOT – That is the Question!

To separate, or not to separate… THAT is the question! That question was settled when one of you left and took up residence at a separate location. Clothes and personal belongings may not have been moved, but you are living apart. The very word may bring fear to your heart, Read More…