Vantage Points in Marriage

Have you ever considered your different vantage points as a husband and wife? One sees things one way and the other sees things another. It’s called vantage points. For many different reasons we don’t see things the same way. We just went through this issue last night. I (Cindy) saw Read More…

Reasons NOT to Get Married – MM #354

Most of us either know someone who is planning on getting married or maybe you’re planning that special event yourself. If that’s true, then we encourage you to pay attention to what Dr Randy Carlson has to say in this Marriage Message. In it, he gives various reasons as to Read More…

Don’t Marry If…

Some matters should be common sense; but obviously, they aren’t to everyone. Some people have to have warnings written out clearly for them. And even then, there’s no guarantee that they will heed the warnings. They may not believe they apply to them. I’m talking particularly about marriage here —reasons to Read More…

WARNING – Escape Abuse BEFORE Marriage

I debated on what to title this article. No matter what it is named, the wording doesn’t seem strong enough for this message. This article is intended to put out an “all-points bulletin.” I want to warn those who are dating, NOT to continue on in a relationship with someone Read More…

Warning: Bad Mood in Progress

I recently read a blog written by “Paula” titled, “Bad Day Warning.” It caused me to remember my own experiences on this issue. It also got me to laughing (kind of). And now, it got me to writing this blog, with a purpose in mind. I’m talking about a “bad mood” Read More…

Heeding Premarital Advice and Warnings

Did you receive any good premarital advice to apply before marrying? Did you receive any premarital warnings? Have you paid attention to, and even applied the advice given that is appropriate before marrying? For those of you who aren’t married yet, will you prayerfully consider applying some additional good premarital Read More…

Problem Behaviors That Undermine the Best Relationships

The following checklists can help you and your partner identify possible problems and talk them over. They will also help you get to know each other better. Ask yourself and each other the following questions. 1.  Addiction or Excessive Use of Alcohol, Drugs, Etc. Whether the problem is alcohol, drugs, Read More…

Heeding Relational Red Flags Before Marriage

Any relationship will have its difficulties. But sometimes those difficulties are indicators of deep-rooted problems. That’s when relational red flags are usually waving to warn you. Essentially, they’re invisibly saying, “Pay attention; there are potential problems here.” And if they’re waving, don’t ignore them! It’s important to know that just because Read More…

How to Know if Your Spouse is Having an Affair

Are you starting to question if your spouse may be having an extramarital affair? Do you see and sense certain things, that makes you suspicious of his or her faithfulness to you and your marriage? Are you wondering how to know if your spouse is having an affair, or not? Read More…

Guidelines When Traveling and Dealing With Associates

In some work relationships, traveling with opposite-sex associates may be necessary. If you are a subordinate scheduled to take a business trip with a superior, here are a few things to remember. [Please note: Most of this can also be applied if you’re traveling with a business associate —even if Read More…