“Help! My spouse is cheating and is in love with someone else!”
We’ve heard those horrible words in different forms so many times from those that write to us, here at Marriage Missions. Their cheating spouse thinks he or she is in love with their affair partner. And the spouse who is left behind, who is telling us his or her story, is devastated!
And understandably so!
“Infidelity is one of the most thoughtless, dishonest and cruel acts of self-indulgence imaginable.” (Dr Willard Harley Jr.)
We couldn’t agree more with that statement! Just the thought of having a spouse, the person who pledged to love and be faithful to you for the rest of your lives, the person you have given every part of your heart and body to —just to think that this person could throw your love and commitment away and pledge love to someone else, is inconceivably cruel. No one deserves to hear that “news” from his or her spouse.
How we wish we could erase that betrayal from ever happening to another person!
But sadly, we can’t.
What we can do however, is lead you to read an article, which God may use to help you deal with this horrible news in some way. We pray it helps with all our hearts.
Please click onto the Marriage Helper.com link to read what marriage expert, Jo Beam wrote on this subject:
If you have additional tips you can share to help others, please “Join the Discussion” by adding your comments below.