Guard Your Heart – Don’t Get Involved With a Jerk

The above title might seem obvious. Why wouldn’t you guard your heart from getting involved with a jerk or jerkette? Who in their right mind would go out to get involved with someone like that? There are those who appear to be obvious jerks or jerkettes (or “losers” —meaning, you lose Read More…

The Difference Between Love and Infatuation

What is the difference between love and infatuation? “Real love involves commitment to the other person… infatuation doesn’t. “Real love is more about how I can show I care for the other person… infatuation is more about how the other person makes ME feel. “True love is based on really Read More…

Is My Love For My Partner “THE REAL THING”?

We all love to love. It’s so romantic. But the problem with marriage today is that there is no foundation for it other than eros [romantic] love. Although there is nothing wrong with romantic love, it is entirely inadequate as a basis for a permanent life commitment. We may have Read More…