marital conflict

Is What You’re Doing the Wisest Approach?

You want change to happen in your marriage, but you don’t change what you’re currently doing about it even when you see it’s not working. Hmmm… the question comes to mind, “How’s that working for you?” If it’s working, then don’t change anything. But if it’s not, perhaps you need to make Read More…

Before Conflict Arises in Marriage – MM #352

“The best place to start dealing with conflict is before conflict arises. That’s right, BEFORE a conflict arises. Every couple has their own combination of attitudes, emotions, and circumstances that set them up for conflict, but most couples are totally unaware of what they are. As you identify the factors Read More…

The XYZ Formula – Drs Les and Leslie Parrott

In this You Tube video, relationship experts Drs Les and Leslie Parrott explain something they call the XYZ Formula. It’s one that they often give to couples who need help. When you use it, it can transform a fight you are having with your spouse. It goes something like this: Read More…

When A Discussion Goes Badly – MM #250

Have you ever been involved in a discussion with your spouse and it goes badly? It goes in a direction that you never intended? “Why is it that differences of opinion between a husband and wife so often lead to arguments and a breakdown in communication? Usually the differences are Read More…