Why Conflict Is a GOOD Thing – Chip Ingram
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marital conflict
Arguing: Win But Still Lose – MM #203
Have you realized yet that sometimes you can appear to “win” an argument, but in the long run, you still lose? You may feel better after winning. But when your spouse feels like a loser, it’s your relationship that will ultimately lose. We’re told in the Bible: “A fool finds Read More…
Having The “Heart To” Do What You Should
Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. (Proverbs 4:23) Mark, a Midwestern family physician with a good eye for investments, has lifted his family into affluence through hard work. He’s provided his wife —who comes from a poorer background —with a good living. He’s Read More…
If You Leave a Hurt – Steve and Annie Chapman
The Persevering Will To Do What is Needed
It’s amazing what you can do when you have the persevering will to do it! My husband Steve and I have been learning this with this new journey God has been taking us on with my brother. He has recently moved in with us while he’s going through massive health Read More…
Becoming More Compatible in Marriage – MM #174
Are you and your spouse completely compatible? Do you agree about every issue that comes up in your marriage? We’re thinking that your answer would be, “no!” If it was yes, then you would be the unusual couple, rather than the norm. More than likely, you (like we) have discovered Read More…
How Can I Start A Difficult Conversation with My Spouse?
Heather emerged from the clothing store’s dressing room and looked in the three-paned mirror. Keith would love this dress. But would it be enough to ease the way for the difficult conversation they had to have? How can I explain my feelings to him? she thought. How can I get Read More…
Dealing with Issues in Marriage – MM #112
Are you dealing with issues that are causing some type of marital division or separation? As difficult as this may seem, it’s truly not unusual. It’s difficult, but not unusual. “Everyone comes into marriage with their own hurts, wounds, and spiritual ‘baggage.’ Maybe your wife’s siblings teased her. Maybe your Read More…
The Win/Lose Principle in Marital Conflict – MM #29
I used to think it was important to “win” every argument that occurred between my husband and me. I was sure that he needed to see my point of view. Ignorantly, I was sure that he was wrong and I was right. And I was sure that I had the Read More…
Serious Communication Games People Play
Most of us think we’re “fair” in how we interact with our spouse. We may see faults in how our spouse communicates and we might even admit that “we’re not always perfect.” But for the most part we think the communication problems we’re having is more their fault rather than Read More…