What About Oral Sex and Novelty Items?

This article focuses on the marital sexual relationship. The questions posed concern oral sex, novelty items, and whether or not they are biblically sanctioned.  So what about oral sex? This is the most common question asked by both men and women at the seminars I hold. A close second behind Read More…

How Much Sex Is Normal?

So, you haven’t had much sex with your spouse lately, huh? How much sex is normal? Well, one in five couples are living in “sexless” marriages, sex experts say, meaning having sex fewer than 10 times a year. And one-third of married couples struggle with the problem of mismatched sexual Read More…

Husband’s Sexual Needs: Man Or Monster?

After 27 years of marriage, I’m just beginning to understand my husband’s sexual needs. I DO know that his need for sexual contact is much stronger than mine. While I would be thrilled, with a romantic rendezvous about twice a month, my husband’s sexual needs are more intense. I noticed Read More…

TO WIVES: Why Is Sex So Important?

Wives: what kinds of emotional needs does your sexual interest meet for your husband? Do you know? In written survey comments and in my interviews, I noticed two parallel trends. They are the great benefits a fulfilling sex life creates in a man’s inner life and, conversely, the wounds created Read More…