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“When you sit down to discuss a conflict, take turns talking. Start with 5 minutes each. You can have as many turns as needed, but don’t interrupt each other with your own ideas. Wait for your turn. According to King Solomon, listening to others—particularly if they have constructive criticism to share with us—makes us wise. When we listen to our spouse, especially in the midst of conflict, we'll gain more understanding of ourselves, & each other. You may ask questions to help you understand what your spouse is saying. ...After listening, you then have your turn to talk. Then together you can look for a solution that both of you agree is workable.” (Gary Chapman)
