The following are “Real Life” testimonies of married women, ministering to married women. We believe you will learn through what they have to say and will prayerfully find hope through reading what they have lived through and learned through.
• SHE NEVER GAVE UP ON HER HUSBAND
• CONFESSIONS OF A WOMAN ON THE WHIRL
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(SOUTH AFRICA) I also do believe that privacy is the best thing, to protect people’s emotions and to save them from embarrassment, cause mind you, not all the people know about my problems.
(ZIMBABWE) I understand that men do need appreciation from their their wives. How do I show that appreciation to my husband? HELP! It seems I am not showing him that much affirmation.
(MD) My husband, has cheated in our marriage over and over. I’m at my last straw. I have moved out of the room. We have been married for twenty two years. I lost all respect for him. I just want out. I cannot take this anymore. I pray and pray. I am really miserable. I need help.
Dear Michelle
I am 9 years in marriage and pray that our marriage should last long 22 and more like yours, my husband has and is still cheating. God has done something in me; I developed the love of God for my husband, seeing Him as God sees him. If you continue to pray for him, the respect will come back gradually. Please ask for the peace of God that surpasses human understanding to reign in you.
(BOTSWANA) Guddai ladies. My husband refuses to let me do anything, he just wants me to always be in the house. We have been married for 5 years no and I don’t understand if it’s lack of trust or what!! Please help. I am 24 yrs old now.
I posted a prayer request on here on Jan 16th and me an my husband began to reconcile on the 19th. Awesome!!! We were separated for about a year and 3 months. Most of the time he ignored me, and told me to move on. I prayed and cried, and at times wanted to kill myself. I didn’t eat… stressed so much but for the period I was away from him God wanted me to put him first. Once I began to pray more and have a stronger relationship with God. I went on a Daniel fast for 7 days an after continued in prayer.
Once I came to this site, submitted my request, I began to read prayers out loud pray specifically on what need to be changed …forgiveness, bitterness, lust for other woman… desires… forgiveness of past… generational curses broken… whatever came to me I prayed it out loud. God has done a miracle where our relationship is now, how it was from the beginning. He answers!!! Continue to believe an it is done!!! Fight because the enemy is fighting many marriages. With Jesus we win!!! Hallelujah!!!
God is able to save any marriage. As long as we put him first then everything will be added to us, including the marriage itself.
I have been married to my husband for five years and yesterday he said we do not have a future. I really love my husband but he does not have any kind of sex with me and I’m still here holding myself for him and I need some. I need him to hold me because I do love him and I do need a sexual partner that he’s not giving me. I don’t know what to do and have been doing this for like 2 months. Sometimes I wait 1 month without having sex; this is how long he makes me wait. What should I do? Really, I don’t know what to do any more. Should I leave him? He’s always telling me to leave. Help me to understand what kind of marr-edged razor his tongue is like a twtwo-edge razor blade; he says anything to me. I cannot take it anymore. I’m laying up here in the bed thinking I should go ahead and masturbate. Mighty God, out there please help me. What should I do? He doesn’t take me anywhere, doesn’t spend time with me; he leaves early in the morning and when he comes in the house he says few words then he goes to sleep. I am getting mentally abused. The words come out of his mouth are also painful; my heart has so many pains and hurts and is telling me to stay, but my mind is telling me to go. My tears are running down my face; I am in so much pain. I pray and think things are getting better, then they get worse. It makes me feel like I’m losing my mind. Please help.
Madam Deborah, seriously, your story is just like mine but in all I have always asked the most high God to strengthen me and also for the counsel of the holy spirit whenever I feel so helpless and hopeless. I strongly bear with you; it’s so painful and unbearable but all this while instead of crying myself out I decided to set up some achievable goals and with the help of God I have been able to achieve at least two (2) of them and that’s furthering my education and acquiring a property for myself and the kids in case of any unforeseen incident in my marriage.
For I saw all the signs and each time I forgave him it kept on recurring and repeating itself. Paying attention to the situation was putting me in a world of misery so I started praying and asking God to grant me more patience to enable me go through it with his joy being my strength and truly he answered me without me noticing I was going through the storm. In the same vain ask God and it would surprise you He’s going to supply all your needs according to His riches in glory. Besides that, your husband would soon realize you are busy and happy moving about with your life without him and by the time he will start to get closer. God’s also lifted you in order for you to stand on that mountain. Please stay blessed and begin to love yourself more for others are in a more terrible situation than yours and remember all the ladies out there are with you in prayer and we love you more.
Please pray for a spouse who has the same vision and calling as me to be a missionary. Recently met someone who seems to fulfil this criteria but is in need of some major breakthroughs in his life. Without which, I know I should not proceed to be in a relationship with him. Appreciate your prayers for him and also for discernment for me if he is really the man God has planned for me to be with and that God would protect my heart in this process. Thank you.