Modeling Marriage for Children – MM #211

Are you modeling marriage for your children and other children who are watching your interactions with your spouse? Prayerfully consider the example you are and can be to your children. Consider how God would want you to model marriage for the young ones He brings into your life together. “Marriage Read More…

Little Eyes Are Watching – Marriage Message #153

The primary influencer of how the kids see dad is mom! The way she views her husband and the manner in which she treats him is very often mirrored by her children. A woman is counted wise if she carefully builds her house. This includes her husband’s reputation. However, she Read More…

When Children Come Into a Marriage – Marriage Message #94

“Babies are loud about what they need. Marriages are not. It’s easy to neglect each other because other things are more urgent, but you have to save some time and energy for your spouse.” (Teresa Parr, Parent Coaching Consultant) Now, don’t let the title of this message or the above Read More…

Children Change a Marriage – MM #93

When children come into a marriage, they sure do change the dynamics between both spouses! Sometimes the change is for the better. That is because children are cute and can bring times of laughter and fun. But other times they bring added challenges, which can cause stress fractures within the Read More…

MARRIAGE: It’s Little Things That Matter Most

A solid, stable relationship between partners is especially important when children enter the picture, according to Sherry Finneran, co-director at the Family Education Center. This is true for two reasons. “The first is because parents model how to have a loving relationship. The second is because it’s a lot more Read More…

Children Are Hard On A Marriage

Why this sudden surge in marital discomfort? According to Gottman, it’s partly because parents are tired and don’t have a lot of time for themselves. Another reason is that parenting is much more work than most couples expect. And it’s easy to let the pressure come between them. Whatever the Read More…

VOWS TO YOUR NEW CHILDREN – It’s Never Too Late

When two people marry they exchange vows with each other. These are promises given to each other that they will love, honor, help and uphold each other. These promises are to be honored through ALL circumstances that life may bring. Vows are important because they bring to light the seriousness Read More…

Questions to Ask Each Other Concerning Child Rearing

In many premarital counseling programs the issue of child rearing is not dealt with in great detail. This is usually because of a time factor. Also, it’s because most couples are more concerned with immediate issues such as finances, marriage plans, and the sexual side of marriage. Some couples do Read More…