thoughts

Strategies to Combat Obsessive Thoughts About an Affair

When we imagine our beloved in the arms of another we wince. We find ourselves plagued with murderous thoughts. We think about our now-scarred marriage and wonder if we can ever be happy again. Additionally, we beat ourselves up, convincing ourselves that we must be inadequate in some way that Read More…

If Our Thoughts Were Pictures Shown to Our Spouse…

“If our thoughts were pictures—would you want your spouse to look at them?” The truth is—a lot of times we wouldn’t! Our unedited thoughts could cause problems. But there’s more to consider here. Our guest writer, Debi Walter, from The Romantic Vineyard gives the following thoughts to prayerfully consider concerning this Read More…