What you say and what your wife hears can be two entirely different things. You have probably already figured out by now. And what she says and what she means can be two different things also. You’ve also probably figured that out, or you wouldn’t be reading this article. It can be truly puzzling and perplexing!
It’s almost as if you’re operating in a different language system from each other. And essentially you are! It’s possible that:
“Your wife has been telling you dozens of things, and most of them have little to do with the words she has been speaking. Since you aren’t a mind reader, you probably feel baffled by the whole thing. But there are secrets to this business of loving and understanding your wife.” (Kyle Minor)
Do you want to know what those “secrets” are? Perhaps the linked articles we lead you to below will help you with this mystery.
In the linked article below, Kyle Minor aims to clue you in on “14 ways to sharpen your language skills” with your wife so you better understand each other.
The article appeared on the web site for New Man Magazine. To help you better understand and to learn some important keys to improve your communication with your wife, please read:
Dr David Stoop wrote a helpful article that husbands and wives should take to heart on this issue of talking to and hearing each other:
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Paul Byerly, from The-generous-husband.com web site, explains some additional things, as far as what you say to your wife. Please read the following article so that what your wife hears you say will not slam her ears shut:
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