Why Should I Be the One to Change?

Why should I be the one to change when it’s my spouse who’s causing the problems in our marriage? Have you heard that said by someone in your life? Or perhaps you’ve said it yourself! Quite honestly, we have! We’ve each said that to ourselves many times in our marriage. Read More…

Should YOU Change to Improve Your Marriage?

In this You Tube Video, author, speaker, wife, and mother, Sheila Wray Gregoire addresses the issue of whether or not you are being true to yourself if you change to make your marriage better? After all, aren’t we just supposed to go with our “natural” feelings? Sheila Wray Gregoire on the Read More…

Making Changes for Good Reasons

Have you been considering making changes in your life—especially your married life? Someone said on the radio that many people who decide to make changes are just bored. They feel the need to mix things up a bit. And that CAN be a positive thing (like moving around furniture, or Read More…

The Longview as You Both Change

Concerning the longview of marriage, I (Steve) came across an article where Cliff and JoAnn Payne offered advice after 60 years of being married. They shared things like how important it is to laugh together. They said that the “secret to being close” to one another is by both of Read More…

Decluttering Your Marriage Relationship

So many people have made New Years resolutions that they are attempting to keep. (Some have already given up on keeping theirs.) Did you make any? If so, how are you doing in keeping them? Hopefully, you’re still on track. But if you aren’t… don’t quit. There is no law Read More…

Clothing Change in Marriage

You might wonder why we would call this Marriage Insight, “Clothing Change in Marriage.” If so, please let us explain. But first we have a question for you. Have you ever put on clean clothes and afterward you feel like a new person? We have… actually, quite recently. We live Read More…

BLAME MODE: Why Should I Be the First to Change?

Have you ever seen on of those political thriller movies where two soldiers are deep in a secret bunker waiting for the orders to launch the missiles? Each one has his hand on a key. For the missiles to launch, both people must turn their keys. Many husbands and wives Read More…

Survive and Grow Through Marital Seasons

When you consider marrying, “survival” is not a word that comes to mind. And yet from what we can see about so many of the marriages of today’s world, “survival” is half the battle, in order to make it through the various marital seasons they encounter. The key is to Read More…