I Love You AND I Like You Too

In our wedding vows that we committed to almost 50 years ago, Cindy and I (Steve) were asked, “Do you take ______ to love, honor, cherish, etc.?” But nowhere were we exhorted to like each other. I guess the assumption when we made our vows is that if we say Read More…

Sexually Compatible Before Marrying or Not?

Is it important to know if you are compatible sexually before marrying one another, or not? I can well understand why couples might wonder. That is because they’re trying to make sure they’re compatible in other ways before marrying. And this  can be good. But when it comes to opening Read More…

Forgiveness In Marriage

“Unless couples CREATE compatibility THROUGHOUT their marriage, the compatibility they had at the time of their wedding will be destroyed.” (Willard Harley) And this includes giving forgiveness in marriage. Compatibility has to be continually worked on so it isn’t destroyed by the hassles that barge into our lives everyday. “The rigors Read More…