Drifting Back Together

Last time I wrote a blog, asking the question, Drifting Apart? I’d like to expand on that idea a bit more because it has not left my heart. When we drift apart we need to find ways so we’re drifting back together again. As I said in my last blog, when Read More…

When “Love Subsides” – Marriage Message #162

“What happens to cause the death of romantic love for our spouse? Why does this death happen to most of us four to ten years into our relationships? One main reason: We stop doing the things that create deep emotional feelings.” (David Clarke, Ph.D.) Too often when life gets busy Read More…

I Love You But I’m Not IN LOVE With You

If your spouse says to you, “I love you but I’m not IN love with you anymore” … OUCH! You are experiencing a big OUCH to the Nth degree! Even if you’ve said those words to your spouse, I say OUCH! Those words cause a lot of pain to a Read More…

Doubts: I Now Realize That We Never Loved Each Other

“For most people, doubts begin with tiny hints, fleeting thoughts. ‘I wonder what my life would have been like if I had married my old boyfriend? I bet he wouldn’t take me for granted like my husband does!’ Sometimes these good feelings are simply neutralized, replaced by numbness. Sometimes they Read More…