Asking Why During a Stormy Time

Do you ask why during stormy times in your life? Why is this happening to me … why now … why ever? What did I do to I deserve this? There’s no doubt that it’s tempting to visit these types of doubt storms when other storms are hitting and hitting Read More…

How Big is Your God?

How big is your God? Do you recognize Him as the “Creator of heaven and earth” (Genesis 14:19)? Do you recognize Him as the One who with His “own hands stretched out the heavens” (Isaiah 45:12)?  And do you recognize Him as the one who “marshaled their starry hosts” (Isaiah 45:12), and Read More…

Crying Tears to God for Marriage

Recently, we celebrated our anniversary. It was a GREAT day for us. But we also know that anniversaries can be a very painful day for many others who are struggling in their marriages. How our hearts grieve for those who are crying tears to God for their marriages! We wish, Read More…

Experiencing God’s Silence in Your Marriage

Have you ever experienced God’s silence? We’re talking about times when your prayers seem to be bouncing around and it doesn’t appear that God is listening. You wait and wait for Him to talk to you or do something for you and/or your marriage… and yet nothing. Over time God’s Read More…

Rejected! How Do I Cope?

I don’t think there is any pain that can compare to loving someone so deeply that you would die for him or her, and yet he or she has decided that the feeling is not mutual. This person has made the decision to up and leave you. We hear of Read More…

LIVING The Gospel Message – MM #291

A while back Steve and I went to the Middle East ministering with others, to faithful workers of the Gospel. We fell in love with our fellow brothers and sisters over there. We know that because of this trip our lives have been forever changed in a positive way. On this Read More…

After the Crying… After Asking Why… Then What?

It was our sixth trip to the ER with chest pain in a little over a year. After open heart surgery plus three stents had stabilized Bette’s heart condition, we dared to believe we were finally done with these anxious trips to the hospital. But there we were again. And Read More…

Marriage Without a Blueprint?

Why is it that we think that it would be ridiculous to build a house without using a blueprint —an intentional plan, but building a marriage should “just come naturally?” Is the initial love that you feel for each other truly enough to last you from your wedding day, for Read More…

Open Presents – Open Hearts

It’s Christmas Day and Steve and I opened our presents with family and with each other. It caused us to be reminded of something Janice Maeditere wrote. She said: “Christmas isn’t so much about opening our presents as opening our hearts.” It caused me to wonder if we have open Read More…