Keeping Your Marriage Bed Undefiled

“Undefiled” is not a word we hear often in our 21st century language. But what’s most important however, is that it was used 12 times in the Bible. Even though we may not use the word much today, we shouldn’t take this word lightly because it’s important to God. That’s Read More…

5 Steps That Helped Me Overcome Pornography

Pornography isn’t that big of a deal …that’s what I used to think. How I Got Addicted to Porn When I was 14 years old, my dad and I bought one of the first satellite dishes. It gave me access to hundreds of channels including pornography nearly any time I Read More…

Protecting Your Home from Online Porn

Protecting one’s home and your marriage from unwanted media has become more difficult in the last few decades. Since the advent of premium cable television and pay-per-view, everything from raunchy comedies to hardcore features have been available for the unwitting, channel-surfing eye. And these days, pornography is not only available Read More…

How Pornography Hurts Intimacy In a Marriage

James Bryden writes, “Love does not die easily. It is a living thing. It thrives in the face of all life’s hazards, save one —neglect.” And when you get involved with pornography it causes you to neglect your sexual life with your spouse. Pornography hurts intimacy in marriages and kills Read More…

Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder

Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder? I came up with that term in my head a few months ago. I then tossed it into my future post file. Today I did a bit of searching on that term. Not surprisingly, I found almost 90,000 results on Google. It’s an obvious term for Read More…

When Pastor Husband is Ensnared by Pornography

Sometimes it’s a shock, and sometimes it’s not. Sometimes a wife just knows that something is wrong and yet doesn’t know what to do about it. And what’s especially disturbing is when the “someone” that is viewing images of women that he shouldn’t, is your pastor husband. What can you Read More…

Pornography In Marriage

It’s quite common for couples to ask my opinion on whether or not they are Biblically free to use pornography. They want to use it to help them get ready for sex. Or it could be that they want to use it to enhance their lovemaking. Pornography Use I have Read More…