Having Fun Loving Your Spouse?

There are times when life, and/or our marriage can be extremely difficult. Cindy and I (Steve) have been there – many times in our 47 years of marriage. But fortunately, we learned a long time ago that even in the hardest of struggles we HAD to find a way to Read More…

Having Fun Loving Your Spouse?

Are you having any fun loving your spouse lately? What about your spouse? Do you think he or she is enjoying being married to you? Or are you experiencing a “vacuum of laughter” in your marital relationship lately? If you are, you’re actually more “normal” than you realize. As we Read More…

Heroes in Marriage

I was thinking about the Super Bowl football game (a sports event coming up this Sunday, which is a HUGE deal, here in the United States). Because it’s such a huge deal, its “heroes” often are propelled into the forefront of our attention. But they aren’t the only heroes we Read More…

Your Neighbor, Your Spouse

Do you remember what Jesus said about neighbors, when asked, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?” Most of us know His reply. He said, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength. The Read More…

A New Beginning of Growth

“Each day —a new beginning.” That is a little saying we have posted on our wall. It inspires us not to let yesterday’s failures dictate the victories that can be gained at the beginning of each day. A new day can escort in new beginnings, if we embrace the possibility. Read More…

Love Through Actions – MM #186

If we were to ask you, “What’s more important in marriage, feelings or actions?” you would likely reply, “actions, of course.” That’s because mature adults who think rationally, know we can’t always trust our feelings. In fact I (Steve) have learned that it’s a rare occurrence where I can trust my feelings. Read More…

When Loving Feelings are Lost – MM #142

When you’re not feeling love for your spouse any longer, when you just don’t feel you have it within to experience the feelings you once had for him or her again, what can you do about it? What SHOULD you do about it when you’ve lost loving feelings for your Read More…

Saying I Love You – Marriage Message #99

“Then there was the guy who loved his wife so much, he almost told her.” (Anonymous) That line sounds like the beginning of a corny joke (and it is). But it’s also true to what’s happening in a lot of marriages. Why is it that so many couples speak freely of their Read More…

Loving Beyond the Visible – MM #80

If you’re like us, you remember the story in Genesis 29 of Jacob, Rachel and Leah. In this week’s message we’re sharing the same true story but from a different vantage point. It’s written from the vantage point of the Jewish Torah. We encourage you to read through the entire Read More…

100 Ways to Show Love to Your Wife HER Way

“A husband considers romance to be one way and the wife considers it to be another. The wife provides many romantic gestures which go unnoticed by her husband, because it wasn’t romantic to him. The husband can spend precious time doing what he thinks will bless and romance his wife Read More…