Being Present in Your Marriage

I just read a “one liner” that stated, “One day I’ll look up from my phone and realize my kids put me in a nursing home.” I’m thinking the same can be stated another way. “One day I’ll look up from my phone (or computer) and realize my spouse has left Read More…

Phone Intrusions

Okay, I feel the need to tell you one of my pet peeves. It’s talking on your cell phone in public places. Everywhere I go there are people talking to other people on their cell phones. It’s as if we can hardly interact personally with those around us when we’re Read More…

Privacy Vs Secrecy in Marriage

We hear it continually… “My husband says he needs his privacy.” …“My wife tells me that she should be allowed to have some things that are private, away from me.” To that we say, yes, some privacy can be fine within marriage. But these spouses aren’t talking about privacy, they’re Read More…

Internet and Phone Secrecy – MM #77

Ever since the Internet became a regular part of the human experience, cyberspace has been implicated in the break-up marriages. Part of this is because of Internet and cell phone secrecy. With every new online fad have come the stories of spouses wandering away from their marriage to a new Read More…

Little Secrets that Destroy Marriages – MM #54

Repeatedly, we hear of little secrets that couples keep apart from each other. Tragically, these secrets are destroying their relationships. They’re subtle at first. But eventually as secrets grow in darkness they overtake that, which was once good. In thinking about these secrets, we’re reminded of a scripture in Song Read More…