My Spouse Has Little or No Sexual Desire

In our culture, with all the emphasis on sex, you wouldn’t think the matter of lacking sexual desire would be a big issue. And yet it is. However, no one wants to talk about it. Except, of course, the spouse who is having to beg for sexual intimacy with their Read More…

Soul Ties

A while ago, we sent out Marriage Message #267 on the subject of Soul Mates. But this time I want to elaborate more on this issue concerning soul ties. I want to say right here that my husband Steve and I (and other marriage educators) believe that the closeness of Read More…

Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder

Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder? I came up with that term in my head a few months ago, and tossed it into my future post file. Today I did a bit of searching on that term. Not surprisingly, I found almost 90,000 results on Google. It’s an obvious term for something Read More…

When Getting and Keeping an Erection Isn’t Happening

You can’t turn on the TV or pick up a magazine today without being bombarded with the term, “Erection or Erectile Dysfunction.” The ads make it seem like if a man who suffers from this just takes a little blue pill, then everything will be fine. Well, that hasn’t been Read More…

Marital Intimate Issues – MM #34

Do you have intimate issues that pertain to sexual intimacy with your spouse that are causing problems in your lives together? If you do, you’re not alone. The media is filled with sex talk and many intimate problems that couples are encountering. Unfortunately, Christian couples are not excluded from experiencing Read More…

We Have Different Sex Drives

On the issue of having different sex drives, the following is an article written by Michele Weiner Davis. It is written in a question/answer format: Hi Michele: I’d like to ask your advice about sex. My husband and I have very different sex drives. For him, everyday would be great, and Read More…

Painful Intercourse in Marriage

QUESTION: My husband and I have been married six years. We have a good sex life. But I always experience pain at the moment of penetration. We take things slowly. And after the initial pain things go well. But what can I do about that painful intercourse? Answer Concerning Painful Read More…

The Journey Toward Sexual Healing

Sexual healing does not usually happen in a day or so. That would be unusual. It is usually one that happens as you intentionally walk a long journey towards it. It takes effort, time, and doing whatever it takes to make it happen. The journey may not be quick, but Read More…