Can’t Have An Orgasm?

Are you finding it difficult to achieve an orgasm? If you are, you’re not the only spouse that can’t have one. It’s amazing how many women can’t have an orgasm! But what can you do about it? We don’t know specifically what will work for you, because we aren’t “experts” Read More…

Adultery of the Mind – MM #35

In the Marriage Message before this one (#34), Cindy and I shared some thoughts on the topic of Marital Intimate Issues. Afterward, some men wrote to say they really liked the “sex is a type of worship” part. But as we said, “there is a right kind of worship and Read More…

What About Oral Sex and Novelty Items?

This article focuses on the marital sexual relationship. The questions posed concern oral sex, novelty items, and whether or not they are biblically sanctioned.¬† So what about oral sex? This is the most common question asked by both men and women at the seminars I hold. A close second behind Read More…

How Much Sex Is Normal?

So, you haven’t had much sex with your spouse lately, huh? How much sex is normal? Well, one in five couples are living in “sexless” marriages, sex experts say, meaning having sex fewer than 10 times a year. And one-third of married couples struggle with the problem of mismatched sexual Read More…

Frequently Asked Questions About Sexual Issues

We are continually asked questions about various sexual issues. Because we aren’t sex therapists, it is a challenge for us to answer those questions.¬†However, we are always on the lookout to find answers for those of you who are questioning. We look for answers that don’t contradict God’s principles. In Read More…

What Is Not Okay In Bed?

“If both partners agree, is anything taboo?” “What about the use of vibrators?” “Is oral sex okay?” [These are a few questions that Christian women asked about the sexual relationship in marriage from a survey that the authors conducted.] But at the heart of each of these questions were two Read More…

Thoughts That Threaten Marital Sex

To keep the intimacy going within our marriages, we need to take care. There are actions and there are thoughts that can threaten marital sex. We are highlighting those thoughts in this article. (Actions that threaten are brought out in other articles posted throughout this web site.) “It’s difficult to Read More…