Having the Same Argument Over and Over Again?

Do you get tired of “revisiting” certain issues with your spouse repeatedly? Yes, us too! We also go through this frustrating situation sometimes. We call them Déjà vu Arguments. It’s the same argument; it’s just repackaged, and keeps popping up repeatedly on different days, weeks or months. But why? Why Read More…

Revising Expectations to Fit Painful Realities

They say you get what you expect. But then what do “they” know anyway when it comes to expectations? What about revising expectations because reality demands it? Launi expected to be married happily ever after. It didn’t happen. Tammy, Jackie, Martin, and Len expected their partners to be faithful. They Read More…

The Critical Spouse – MM #273

Are you dealing with a critical spouse? Do you feel like you can’t do anything right because your spouse points out all that he or she believes you are doing wrong? When we first marry, we would never think that we would be in that place. We’re sure our love Read More…