LOVE: The Greatest Force – Loving The Same As Christ

The problem with love is that so many people don’t have a clue what it is. Love is NOT a feeling. It’s an ATTITUDE. Basing love on emotions, as the world does, has caused immeasurable pain to numbers of couples. It’s like building a sand castle on the beach. It Read More…

Loving Your Spouse – God’s Way

With March 18th being our anniversary, love has all the more been on our minds. One thing that has helped us grow our marriage to be a wonderful one is having a sense of humor. We’re learning not to take everything so seriously. So, we thought we’d look at love Read More…

The “Job” of Kissing

I ran across something from an old Focus on the Family magazine where Deena McClure wrote the following, concerning the “job” of kissing: “With our meal completed, I brought a homemade apple pie to the table, placed it in front of my husband and gave him a kiss. Our 6-year Read More…

Is Your Love Obvious to Your Spouse?

Concerning obvious love in marriage, here’s something to consider: “The day we stop learning and growing together is the day marriage becomes a holding pattern.” (Dr Robert Paul) The day we pledge our love to each other on our wedding day this marital pattern starts off “holding” its own. Eventually, Read More…

The Love They See in Your Marriage – MM #361

As many of us families celebrate Father’s Day this weekend I (Steve) thought it would be a good time to address just the men. If you’ll remember, ladies, Cindy did a message directed at you on Mother’s Day weekend. So, I want to share some things I’ve learned over the Read More…

What Makes a Marriage Christian – MM #344

Just because two people claim to be followers of Christ, that doesn’t mean they have a Christian marriage. They may have a marriage where there are two people who say they are followers of Jesus Christ. But do they truly follow the teachings of Christ. Frankly, it takes more than Read More…

Amazing Love in Marriage

A while back I listened to Dr Gary Chapman and Lisa Anderson speaking on a Focus on the Family broadcast. I found one part of the program to be especially interesting. It concerns the amazing love you can find in marriage. I’ve been thinking about it all week. These speakers Read More…

Old Guy Waiting in the Parking Lot

Have you seen the old guy waiting in the parking lot? He’s waiting for his wife. He’s biding time. Letting life pass him by until he can pull up to the front and let “the wife” in. I have not wanted to be that man. I have not aspired to Read More…

Make Love Happen Whenever Possible

Something that Kevin B Bullard wrote a while ago on the My Marriage Works web site, got my attention. This is because my husband Steve and I have found it to be SO true. Kevin challenges us to make love happen whenever we can. He wrote: “For as long as you’re Read More…