No More Headaches

I recently listened to an interview with Julia Slattery, on a Focus on the Family broadcast concerning Julia’s book, No More Headaches! It was SO interesting —particularly for us. We receive so many emails, and post a growing number of comments on the web site on the subject of “enjoying sex Read More…

My Spouse Has Little or No Sexual Desire

In our culture, with all the emphasis on sex, you wouldn’t think the matter of lacking sexual desire would be a big issue. And yet it is. However, no one wants to talk about it. Except, of course, the spouse who is having to beg for sexual intimacy with their Read More…

What Do I Do when I Don’t Want To Do It?

In The Message, verse 4 (of 1 Corinthians 7) is paraphrased: “Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out.“ The Sexual relationship between a husband and wife is God-ordained. Failure of either to take this seriously to serve each other in this intimate way, brings dishonor Read More…

Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder

Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder? I came up with that term in my head a few months ago, and tossed it into my future post file. Today I did a bit of searching on that term. Not surprisingly, I found almost 90,000 results on Google. It’s an obvious term for something Read More…

SEX: When The Husband Doesn’t Want To Make Love

What do you do when your husband doesn’t want to make love? You will find this question plus an answer to it given below by sex therapists, Dr Clifford and Joyce Penner: Question: My husband and I are newlyweds, but we only have sex about three times a month. My Read More…

How Much Sex Is Normal?

So, you haven’t had much sex with your spouse lately, huh? How much sex is normal? Well, one in five couples are living in “sexless” marriages, sex experts say, meaning having sex fewer than 10 times a year. And one-third of married couples struggle with the problem of mismatched sexual Read More…

We Have Different Sex Drives

On the issue of having different sex drives, the following is an article written by Michele Weiner Davis. It is written in a question/answer format: Hi Michele: I’d like to ask your advice about sex. My husband and I have very different sex drives. For him, everyday would be great, and Read More…

The Journey Toward Sexual Healing

Sexual healing does not usually happen in a day or so. That would be unusual. It is usually one that happens as you intentionally walk a long journey towards it. It takes effort, time, and doing whatever it takes to make it happen. The journey may not be quick, but Read More…

Husband’s Sexual Needs: Man Or Monster?

After 27 years of marriage, I’m just beginning to understand my husband’s sexual needs. I DO know that his need for sexual contact is much stronger than mine. While I would be thrilled, with a romantic rendezvous about twice a month, my husband’s sexual needs are more intense. I noticed Read More…