“The best place to start dealing with conflict is before conflict arises. That’s right, BEFORE a conflict arises. Every couple has their own combination of attitudes, emotions, and circumstances that set them up for conflict, but most couples are totally unaware of what they are. As you identify the factors Read More…
Before we marry, we usually don’t see the many differences that could drive us apart. We see more of our commonalities, rather than our differences. But after we marry, our differences eventually start to come to the surface. These differences can drive an ever-growing wedge between us in how we Read More…
Are you having a difficult time communicating with one another? Do you need some communication tools that will help you to better understand and deal with each other when you encounter difficult issues. Please look below. The following tools will help you to better follow the Lord’s advice to each Read More…
Lord, grant that I may seek more to understand than to be understood. (St Francis of Assisi) How many of us can truthfully say that when we are in conflict with our spouse, we seek more to understand them “than to be understood?” Seek to Understand I admit that too many Read More…
We’ve been going through a lot of different communication tools and “advice” that Steve and I have used as we’re helping other couples work through their communication differences. One couple, in particular, will be marrying soon and they want to get off on the best footing possible. YEAH!!! We’re SO Read More…
Are there areas of your marriage that concern you? What is it that you pray God will help you with within your marriage? Please let us join you in prayer over this matter. Post it below, so others can join you in lifting this up to the throne of God. Read More…
