Protecting Your Marriage

“Most people don’t think twice about insuring their home or car or things that are valuable. They don’t think twice about installing security measures like screens and alarms. But what about protecting your marriage? What can you and I do to protect our marriages?” (Dale Harcombe) We have to confess Read More…

Emotional Cheating – Dave Carder

This Emotional Cheating You Tube video features relationship expert Dave Carder. Dave currently serves as Pastor responsible for Counseling Ministries at the First Evangelical Free Church of Fullerton. He also serves on the board of Marble Retreat Center, in Marble, Colorado. Additionally, Dave Carder is a family therapist. Plus, he Read More…

Protecting Marriage from Infidelity – MM #315

Very few people who marry think their marriage will end up with infidelity involved someday. That is why they are failing in protecting marriage —particularly, protecting their marriage from infidelity. But tragically, that’s what happens in more marriages than even the experts can count. If even ONE marriage involves unfaithfulness Read More…

Change Your Marriage for the Better – MM #279

If your marriage is less than blissful, and you feel like giving up, I can tell you from personal experience, marriages can be raised from the dead. My husband, Ron, and I had one of the worst marriages I’ve ever seen. But now we really love each other. We even Read More…

The Addictive Power of an Affair

An affair is a very powerful addiction. The craving to be with the lover can be so intense that objective reality doesn’t have much of a chance. The fact that a spouse and children may be permanently injured by this cruel indulgence doesn’t seem to matter. All that matters is Read More…

The Need for Attention in Marriage – MM #244

“The need for attention makes us vulnerable.” Please consider that statement. When we yearn for attention we’re more vulnerable to give in to temptations that otherwise would have no influence on us. We shouldn’t give in —we should stand up against temptation no matter what, because of the integrity of our Read More…

Have a Loving Affair With Your Spouse

We receive an incredible amount of comments from those who are at their worst emotionally. They are reeling in trying to heal from the aftermath of an affair. Homes are being torn apart everywhere we turn. How tremendously sad and tragic! If only these spouses would have put the effort Read More…

Avoiding Emotional Adultery

When you find yourself connecting with another person who starts becoming in even the smallest way a substitute for your marital partner, you’ve started traveling a dangerous road. That’s when avoiding emotional adultery is important, because that is the turn that is starting to take place. So, how do you Read More…

Protect Your Marriage from Affairs – MM #201

How do you protect your marriage from affairs that could kill it? “To stand firm in the battle for our marriages, we must be prepared. We can never assume that having a good marriage shelters us from temptation. In this age of “anything goes,” the wise woman will purposefully build Read More…

Denying an Affair Could Happen – MM #200

Drink water from your own cistern, and running water from your own well. (Proverbs 5:15) What God has put together, let no man put asunder. (Mark 10:9) There’s no denying that those two scriptures pretty well sum up God’s position on being involved intimately with anyone other than your spouse. And there’s Read More…