Denying an Affair Could Happen – MM #200

Drink water from your own cistern, and running water from your own well. (Proverbs 5:15) What God has put together, let no man put asunder. (Mark 10:9) There’s no denying that those two scriptures pretty well sum up God’s position on being involved intimately with anyone other than your spouse. And there’s Read More…

Things You Need to Know About Affairs

This is a short intro to a long, involved, heart-breaking subject. But we came across an article written by relationship expert, Michele Weiner Davis, which we think you may benefit from reading. It concerns things you need to know about affairs. There are a lot of misconceptions, as it pertains Read More…

Guarding Your Hearts – MM #141

“One of the major causes of marital breakups in the Christian community is the lack of protective hedges. These are hedges that spouses should plant around their marriages, their minds, their hearts, their eyes, and their hands” (Jerry Jenkins). God warns us in Proverbs 4:23, “Above all else, guard your Read More…

How to Know if Your Spouse is Having an Affair

Are you starting to question if your spouse may be having an extramarital affair? Do you see and sense certain things, that makes you suspicious of his or her faithfulness to you and your marriage? Are you wondering how to know if your spouse is having an affair, or not? Read More…

Affair Proofing Your Marriage and Protecting the Ministry

It’s almost as if Pastors and their spouses have a bulls-eye invisibly painted upon their marriages! The enemy of our faith appears to target them and their families all the more. This is probably because of the impact they have in poking holes in the spiritual darkness surrounding this world. Read More…

QUIZ: Relationship Vulnerability Map

Are you vulnerable to having an affair? Answer the questions below to find out if your marriage is at risk to this type of vulnerability. QUIZ: Relationship Vulnerability Map -By Dr Shirley Glass There’s no way to predict with certainty whether a couple is “affair-proof.” Responding to the statements below Read More…

The Workplace Romance: The New Infidelity

Not surprisingly, the workplace gives people the opportunity where romance has the chance to bud and eventually bloom. When you’re together in an environment where you’re together so many hours with people of the opposite sex, things can happen. And that can be an okay thing if both of you Read More…

The Warning Signs of Infidelity

Above all else, guard your heart, for it affects everything you do. (Proverbs 4:23) Kate found out her husband was having an affair the same week he asked her for a divorce —she didn’t see it coming. She told me, “My ‘gut’ was telling me that things weren’t quite right, Read More…

If You MUST Separate – Use Structure and Rules

There are times as a married couple that you feel you must separate to be able to work on resolving your conflicts. Must Separate? Sarah considered herself a high-need wife with a large love tank. “We just don’t come together intimately enough in my opinion —physically,” she told me. She Read More…