Marital Boundaries With Friendships

A long time ago, the Lord made my husband and me aware of the importance of guarding our hearts and our marriage. This includes being careful of the friends we allow ourselves to get close to —whether it is of the same sex or opposite sex. If there is any Read More…

Denying an Affair Could Happen – MM #200

Drink water from your own cistern, and running water from your own well. (Proverbs 5:15) What God has put together, let no man put asunder. (Mark 10:9) There’s no denying that those two scriptures pretty well sum up God’s position on being involved intimately with anyone other than your spouse. And there’s Read More…

Guarding Your Hearts – MM #141

“One of the major causes of marital breakups in the Christian community is the lack of protective hedges. These are hedges that spouses should plant around their marriages, their minds, their hearts, their eyes, and their hands” (Jerry Jenkins). God warns us in Proverbs 4:23, “Above all else, guard your Read More…

QUIZ: Relationship Vulnerability Map

Are you vulnerable to having an affair? Answer the questions below to better know if your marriage is at risk to this type of vulnerability. QUIZ: Relationship Vulnerability Map – By Dr Shirley Glass There’s no way to predict with certainty whether a couple is “affair-proof.” Responding to the statements Read More…

The Workplace Romance: The New Infidelity

Not surprisingly, the workplace gives people the opportunity where romance has the chance to bud and eventually bloom. When you’re together in an environment where you’re together so many hours with people of the opposite sex, things can happen. And that can be an okay thing if both of you Read More…

HEDGES: Loving Your Marriage Enough To Protect It

NO ONE THINKS HE NEEDS MARRIAGE HEDGES UNTIL IT’S TOO LATE. Sexual immorality hits frighteningly close to home. Without being aware of the need to protect ourselves against it, we are vulnerable. Not long ago I reminisced with several old friends. What a shocking disappointment to discover that every one Read More…

The Warning Signs of Infidelity

Above all else, guard your heart, for it affects everything you do. (Proverbs 4:23) Kate found out her husband was having an affair the same week he asked her for a divorce —she didn’t see it coming. She told me, “My ‘gut’ was telling me that things weren’t quite right, Read More…

Guidelines To Sexual Purity: Question – Answer

Question: I was wondering if you could post strict guidelines to sexual purity, like the Do’s and Don’ts of it all. Maybe I missed them somewhere on the site —if I did I am sorry. Bebroken.com Answer on Sexual Purity: You didn’t miss the “do’s” and “don’ts” guidelines on the website. Read More…